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Bond With Your Children After Divorce

Bond With Your Children After Divorce

Following a separation, you may need to reconnect with your children. Divorce can be a very stressful process where parents don’t spend as much time with their children as they wish. Even for families showing support, the bonding process should continue. It is important children learn to reconnect with both parents and adapt to the new parenting plan in their lives. It may not be always easy to talk to children about divorce issues. Whatever you do, make sure you keep bonding and resolve any differences you may have with your child. After all, this is a lifelong relationship that requires nurturing. Contact a Salt Lake City divorce attorney to navigate you through all the complicated issues surrounding divorce.

The relationship children have with their parents is very important to them. That bond helps them grow into healthy adults and interact with the world around them. Divorce can break your relationship with your child if you are not careful. Parents tend to be stressed out and emotionally wounded during a divorce with very little time or strength left for their children. Divorcees already deal with enough pain during a separation. This will cause the children to become hostile towards the parents for causing all this trouble and unexpected changes. Dealing with a child’s broken emotions is not as easy as it seems. It’ll require work and participation.

There are many things you can do to re-bond with your children after a divorce. Just make sure your children know they are on your mind often. Ask them questions about their life or activities they enjoy, send them emails, texts, call them, whatever it takes to re-connect. Participating in school activities is key as these events are very important to them. Communicate with their teachers regularly and ask about their academic performance. Help them with homework and find out about the subjects covered in school.

If you are the non-custodial parent and you have tried to get in contact with your child and he or she doesn’t respond, try other ways to communicate. Your children need to understand you love them and will always be there for them no matter what. Your persistence will eventually show them you care enough to stick around even when they are feeling angry.

Divorce is never easy. Living on your own after years of being in a committed relationship is a huge adjustment. It can be even more challenging for those with children. It can be easy for negative thoughts to race through your mind. Will a divorce mess up my kids? Will I be a terrible single parent? Although these are all valid concerns, many people are finding that divorce improved their parenting skills. It all depends on how you choose to approach the challenge.

Anyone who has children will quickly understand there is no such thing as an easy divorce. Children are often the biggest victims of divorce and find themselves getting caught in the middle of their parents’ squabbles. Due to the enormous distractions, even the best parent will have a difficult time. One of the positives of post-divorce life is it allows people to focus greater on their parental duties. Here are some of the reasons.

• Staying together for the sake of the kids: Many couples in troubled relationships opt to stay together for the sake of the children. But it often makes the situation worse. Instead of providing a stable family home, the children are often forced to live in a dysfunctional environment. Stability does not necessarily come from living in the same house. It comes from a loving and nurturing environment. Post-divorce life allows parents to compartmentalize their lifestyle and place greater emphasis on important priorities. By focusing on what you need to do and how you want to accomplish your goals, many people are able to improve their parenting skills.

• Be brave: Being a single parent is not for the timid. There will be many times when difficult decisions will need to be made. It is important to take chances. But make sure the risks you take are in the best interest of the children.

• Know how to make a compromise: If you have joint custody with your ex-spouse, there will be times when you may butt heads. Whether it is where to attend school or choosing a doctor, it is important to meet halfway. Nobody is going to win every argument. It only creates more animosity. In the long run, it is best to keep everyone happy and on the same page.

• Prioritize your tasks: One of the biggest lessons of divorce is to stay focused on your priorities. As a parent, nothing comes before your children. Another major priority is to effectively manage your finances. There is no manual when it comes to divorce. It is often up to parents to learn how to address their individual financial situations and budget accordingly.

• Be a role model: Regardless of the age of your children, kids emulate their parents. It is important to be cognizant of your actions and how they affect your child. Everything from your mannerisms, to the way you speak or carry yourself, is noticed by children.

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Michael R. Anderson, JD

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People who want a lot of Bull go to a Butcher. People who want results navigating a complex legal field go to a Lawyer that they can trust. That’s where I come in. I am Michael Anderson, an Attorney in the Salt Lake area focusing on the needs of the Average Joe wanting a better life for him and his family. I’m the Lawyer you can trust. I grew up in Utah and love it here. I am a Father to three, a Husband to one, and an Entrepreneur. I understand the feelings of joy each of those roles bring, and I understand the feeling of disappointment, fear, and regret when things go wrong. I attended the University of Utah where I received a B.A. degree in 2010 and a J.D. in 2014. I have focused my practice in Wills, Trusts, Real Estate, and Business Law. I love the thrill of helping clients secure their future, leaving a real legacy to their children. Unfortunately when problems arise with families. I also practice Family Law, with a focus on keeping relationships between the soon to be Ex’s civil for the benefit of their children and allowing both to walk away quickly with their heads held high. Before you worry too much about losing everything that you have worked for, before you permit yourself to be bullied by your soon to be ex, before you shed one more tear in silence, call me. I’m the Lawyer you can trust.