Basics of Common Law Marriage

In the United States, common law marriage has been in existence since the horse and buggy days of 1877. While it might sound like an archaic form of matrimony, it’s still technically around today in one form or another in ten (10) states and the District of Columbia. Additionally, five (5) states recognize common law marriages with some restrictions.

Basics of Common Law Marriage

Definition of Common Law Marriage

A common law marriage is one in which the couple, usually a man and woman, lives together for a period of time and holds themselves out to friends, family and the community as “being married,” but never go through a formal ceremony or get a marriage license. Here are three requirements for most states. Just “living together” is not enough to validate a common law marriage.

  1. You must live together (amount of time varies by state).
  2. You both must have the legal right or “capacity to marry”
  • Both must be 18 years old (varies by State);
  • Both must be of sound mind;
  • Both must not be married to someone else.
  1. You both must intend to be married.
  2. You both must hold yourself out to friends and family as being a married couple such as:
  • Taking the same last name;
  • Referring to each other in public as “husband” or “wife;”
  • Joint bank accounts;
  • Joint credit cards.

States that Recognize Common Law Marriage

The following states fully recognize common law marriage:

  • Colorado
  • District of Columbia
  • Iowa
  • Kansas
  • Montana
  • Rhode Island
  • South Carolina
  • Texas (calls it “informal marriage”)
  • Utah

States with Limited Recognition of Common Law Marriages

The following states formerly recognized common law marriages, and will generally still recognize them if couples satisfied all the requirements before the ban was in place.

  • Georgia (if created before January 1, 1997)
  • Idaho (if created before January 1, 1996)
  • New Hampshire (for inheritance purposes only)
  • Oklahoma (if created before November 1, 1998)
  • Ohio (if created before October 10, 1991)
  • Pennsylvania (if created before January 1, 2005)

Same-Sex Marriage and Common Law

Iowa, Rhode Island and the District of Columbia were the first to recognize common law same-sex marriages. Most other common law states make the law gender-specific so only a man and a woman can enter into a common law marriage.  Now the entire United States recognizes Same-Sex marriage.

What If We Couldn’t Get Married When We Started Living Together?

Even if you don’t have capacity to marry when you start living with someone, you can still end up in a common law marriage.

This could happen if:

  • You or your partner gets a divorce while you are living together in a common law state; or
  • You move in with someone who is married, and their spouse dies while you are living with them.

Does a Common Law Marriage End When We Split Up?

No. Once established, a common law marriage is just as valid and binding as a formal wedding and marriage would be. It lasts until a court grants a divorce or one partner dies.

What Happens if My Common Law Spouse Dies?

You will have to prove your marriage to be able to inherit and receive insurance benefits, Social Security Survivor’s Benefits or pension benefits.

How to Tell If a Common Law Marriage Exists

Generally speaking, the strongest evidence that both partners intended to be married would be a written agreement between them. Ultimately, you only know for sure if there is a common law marriage when a judge says so.

Here are some factors a court would look at to determine if you are or were in a common marriage

These include:

  • Did you two live together?
  • Did the woman use the man’s last name?
  • Did you sign contracts together to buy a home? A car?
  • Did you file joint tax returns?
  • Did you have joint bank accounts?
  • Did you each refer to each other as husband and wife?
  • Did you share household duties and expenses?
  • Did you have and raise children together?

The most important thing you should do when you want to have a common law marriage established in Utah is to talk to a lawyer and get the court process done. If you don’t do it while you are both alive, it will be extremely difficult to do after a spouse has passed away.

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It may have taken years to realize that your marriage wasn’t working. Now, all you want to do is end it. How long will that take? Well, like so many things in life, it depends on several factors.
How complicated is your case? If you’ve been married for a short time, you might be able to settle your affairs quickly. You may not have accumulated much property together, and your debts may be easy to divide. In that case, you can probably end things without much fuss.

If you have kids, and you disagree about where they should live, things will slow down a bit. Depending on your court, you may have to take parenting classes. Your judge may order you to enter into mediation to discuss the parenting time each of you should have. Guardians ad litem and custody evaluators may also get involved in your case. No matter what extra help is called upon, you and your spouse should be prepared to pay.

Property disputes, too can make your divorce take a lot longer. Things may have to be appraised so that the court knows what values it is dividing. Discovery requests may have to be made and answered so the court can decide what is a fair distribution. Debts will also have to be weighed and considered in deciding who will have to pay what.

The next thing that can effect the time it takes to end your marriage is your state’s divorce laws. Each of the United States has provision for a “no fault” divorce. This means that your marriage can be ended because of “irretrievable breakdown” or “irreconcilable differences” no matter where you live. However, the waiting or “cooling off” periods can vary widely depending on where you call home. This means that you may have to wait a few months after you file your petition to get single even if you and your spouse agree on everything about your divorce.

Finally, even if everything else runs smoothly, your court’s calendar can play a part in how long your divorce takes to conclude. If you live in a large city, it is more likely that your judge will not be able to schedule a final hearing the day your cooling off period has passed. Some courts take months to get cases on their dockets. Delays can also occur because of your spouse’s actions, or those of her attorney. Continuances can slow things down significantly.

It is easy to get married. All you have to do is pay for a license and find someone to officiate at your wedding. However, if you decide that getting married was a mistake, you might be able to end it quickly, but it could seem like it took forever.

No one enjoys the divorce process. It may be tempting to rush through the process, agreeing to whatever it takes to end the pain. While understandable this can lead to massive problems in the future. Even people that are attempting to use great caution in settling their divorce can make costly mistakes, especially if they attempt to do it on their own. Divorce lawyers exist for a reason. Their training and experience can save you time, money and heartache in the future. There are many possible traps waiting to be sprung on you in a divorce, but the most common mistakes are outlined below.

You Need to know the liquidity of your assets.

Liquidity is the ability to convert an asset partially or fully into cash. This is an easy thing to determine with assets like savings accounts. All you need is a current statement to see the cash value. They are considered to be highly liquid, because a short trip to the nearest ATM results in one dollar in your hand for every dollar that is in the account. Other assets are not so easy. Assets like antiques, precious metals and collectables are difficult to sell quickly and the market is constantly changing. Depending on the market a house can be nearly impossible to sell, yet it obviously as value.

Most marital estates consist of more than just cash. That means that unless the parties agree to sell everything and split the proceeds someone is getting an asset as part of their share that the other side will not be getting. Often times one party will receive a non-liquid asset such as the house or a car and the other party will get a more liquid asset of “equal” value like cash or a brokerage account. This seems to make sense. If the house has $5,000 in equity in it and the other side gets $5,000 in cash it would seem fair. The problem with this solution is that while on the surface it appears to be equitable. However, the challenge is found in the party receiving the house’s cash flow. How will the person that keeps the house pay the bills if his or her major asset is not liquid? In other words the value in the house is trapped in the house. While you can borrow against the equity in the house it is difficult and selling a house is often not an option.

If the proposed settlement is one sided with regard to liquid assets it is a warning sign that one side or the other may be set up to fail when they can’t meet their living expenses, despite having assets.

You Don’t Want to have Tax Problems.

Most people don’t think about their taxes on a daily basis, but a misstep in negotiating your divorce could have a major impact on your taxes in the areas of capital gains, income tax, and alimony/support.

Capital gains are the increase in value of an asset from the amount it is currently worth minus what you paid for it. For example, if you purchased stock years ago for $10 per share of stock and it is now worth $20 per share, you have a capital gain of $10 per share. The increase in value is potentially taxable when you sell the asset. Stocks aren’t the only assets that can have capital gains taxes applied to them. Real estate (including your home), mutual fund accounts and most investments that have increased in value since their purchase could have capital gains taxes due on sale.

Where this becomes a problem is when your spouse offers to give you an asset that has a large capital gains tax associated with it in exchange for an asset that does not. They may appear to be equal in value but when you sell your asset you will have to pay the capital gains tax thereby reducing the overall amount you receive for your asset, or the value of the asset compared to when your spouse sells there asset and pays little or no capital gains tax. As an example, if your spouse says they want to keep a recently purchased rental property that you paid $100,000 in cash for and offers to give you a rental property that is currently worth $100,000 but was purchased years ago for $25,0000 they are not making you a fair offer. While these two assets may appear on paper to be of equal value if you were to sell both assets the newly purchased property that your spouse is keeping will not have a capital gain and the property you are being offered will have gain of $75,000 which will be taxed at around 15%, thereby reducing the value of the asset you received by roughly $11,000.

Income taxes can also be affected by a divorce settlement. The IRS considers alimony and spousal support to be income. This means that you have to report it and pay taxes on it at the end of the year. It also means that the person paying it gets to claim it as a deduction on their income tax return, unlike child support.
Even if spousal support is not a part of your settlement agreement you must consider how you will be filing your tax return for the last year that you are married. You have the option of filing jointly or separately. Filing jointly could result in an increased refund but ownership of that refund must be addressed. If you are filing separately you must consider who will be claiming the various tax exemptions that are available including the interest on your home loan and the children. The IRS has rules regarding the exemptions if you cannot agree but you can assign the deductions as part of your settlement.

You Need to Understand How Retirement Plans Work

One of the most fought over and argued about assets is the retirement account and for good reason. For many people the retirement account represents one of the largest assets of their marriage and is the basis for their life after work. For others it is an asset that can be used in the present to create a new, post married life. But in order to make good decisions about ownership of these accounts one must understand how they are divided and how they are cashed out.

If a retirement account is to be divided between the parties a Qualified Domestic Relations Order must be used. This is a complicated document that essentially splits the account into two accounts, one in each party’s name. It is important that a Qualified Domestic Relations Order be used to divide retirement accounts because without it the split would be considered and early distribution and would be subject to penalty taxes. If the plan is to place the funds you receive into a retirement account and leave them there then you might want to consult a financial adviser on getting the best return on your investment, but otherwise you don’t have much to worry about. On the other hand if the goal is to use the funds to live on or meet some expense such as a down payment on a new home then you will have to cash out your share of the retirement plan and face stiff penalties for doing so. It is important to keep these penalties in mind. If your share of the retirement is $100,000 you will only receive $80,000 if you cash it out.

Normally, distributions from a retirement plan prior to age 591/2 are considered “early distributions” and are subject to a 10% penalty tax as well as ordinary income tax. An exception to this rule, however, is a transfer to an ex-spouse as part of a divorce settlement. A Qualified Domestic Relations Order is used to affect this transfer. Income taxes still apply, so any assets you receive from a “qualified plan”, such as a 401(k), will be subject to a mandatory 20% tax withholding. For example, if you are awarded a $100,000 distribution from an ex-spouses 401(k) you will actually receive only $80,000.

You Need to Understand Credit and Debt Issues

Post-divorce you will be starting a new chapter in your life. Unfortunately the credit sins of your past may follow you. There are steps you can take to reduce the chances that a bad credit rating will follow you. First get a copy of your credit report. This will allow you to identify all accounts that have both your name and your soon to be ex-spouse’s. You will also be able to see any accounts that you were unaware of and any other potential credit problems that might be lurking.

The next step is to make sure that all joint accounts are closed and if possible paid off. If your name is on the account there is nothing a judge or order can do to change that and if your spouse decides not to pay the debt that they agreed to take on in the settlement agreement the creditor will be coming after you next.

You Need to Think About Insurance

Many divorce decrees create financial obligations such as child support or spousal support. It is common for the decree to include language to the effect that the obligation to pay the amounts set forth in the decree continues past the death of the person ordered to pay as an obligation on their estate. This means that if your spouse agrees to pay support to you, but dies before their obligation is fulfilled their estate must continue to pay. The problem is that it is very common for people to leave their estates to their children so the obligation to pay is meaningless as the children get everything anyway. Or even worse, there is nothing in the estate to satisfy the obligation. That is where insurance comes in. It is vital that any obligation to make payments be tethered to an obligation to obtain and maintain a life insurance policy in an amount that will satisfy the payment obligation should your spouse pass away unexpectedly.

You Need a Budget

A common mistake made in divorces is failing to create a realistic budget. Divorce is a major life change. Nothing, including your finances, will be the same afterwards. It is not uncommon for life styles to change based on the change from two incomes to one income or similar changes. It is vital that both parties prepare a realistic budget before accepting any settlement agreement. Agreeing to take on more debt than you can afford is a recipe for disaster. Before you can accept any settlement offer you must fully understand how much money you will be making in the future and how you will be spending it. What may be an attractive offer may not be feasible when you look at you budget and determine that you simply cannot afford it.

Additionally, understanding what your cost of living will be in the future will help you determine how much and what kind of assets you need out of the settlement. If you intend to maintain a certain life style you will need to know before negotiations begin what assets you will need to keep and what amount of support you must receive or can afford to pay to achieve your goals.

You Must Disclose and Divide Everything

In most divorces both parties are equally aware of the marital assets and debts or at least have equal access to this information, but this is not always the case. Many people take steps to restrict information or hide assets in an effort to retain more of the marital estate for themselves.

There are a number of ways that people try to hide assets and debts from their spouses, including secret accounts, hidden credit cards, cash dealings, and transferring money to others to hold. There are just as many ways to discovery these hidden assets including examining tax returns and other financial documents, pulling credit reports on yourself and your spouse, closely examining credit card bills and expenditures looking for gaps or unexplained spending, Obviously finding hidden assets can be difficult and time consuming. If you suspect your spouse is hiding assets you will need to work with an attorney and possibly an account that specializes in finding hidden assets before you can accept a settlement agreement.

Not all assets are left out of the settlement because they are hidden. Some are just missed. Pensions, insurance policies with cash value, and children’s college savings accounts are commonly over looked. Before you enter into a settlement agreement you should review your assets and debts with your attorney to make sure that nothing is missed.

The vast majority of divorces that are filed each year are resolved through agreement of the parties. These settlements range from fair and equitable for everyone to incredibly unfair and disastrous for one or both parties. Avoiding these seven deadly sins of divorce settlement can help you avoid disaster and move into the next chapter of your life with dignity and the ability to live your life the manner of your choosing.

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Dоn’t bе fооlеd – a mаn саn lоѕе his house, hiѕ inсоmе, and hiѕ children in a divоrсе fоr a variety оf reasons withоut the рrореr knоwlеdgе of thе lаwѕ and rules that аррlу аgаinѕt thеm in divorce соurt. When it comes to divorce for men you need to know what you are up against. This is bесаuѕе mеn have hiѕtоriсаllу bееn trеаtеd with аn unfаir biаѕ аgаinѕt thеm in fаmilу court, it iѕ еѕѕеntiаl tо have a еxреriеnсеd divоrсе lawyer fоr men counsel and guidе males thrоugh the process. Whеn mеn begin thinking about hоw thеir lives will be аffесtеd whеn a divоrсе арреаrѕ imminеnt, it iѕ imроrtаnt to undеrѕtаnd thе history оf how men аnd wоmеn have bееn trеаtеd diffеrеntlу in tеrmѕ оf mаritаl рrореrtу, custody оf thеir сhildrеn, аnd thе divоrсе process in general. Thеѕе biases have сhаngеd оvеr thе years but thеrе is ѕtill аn uphill bаttlе to сlimb for equal rights in a divоrсе fоr an mаn.

Biаѕеѕ Agаinѕt a Mаn in Divorce

Men have аlwауѕ hаd a diffiсult timе оbtаining certain rights when gоing thrоugh a divorce because оf the outdated divоrсе lаwѕ thаt wеrе writtеn and thе nоtiоnѕ оf what a husband’s rеѕроnѕibilitу iѕ соmраrеd to the responsibilities оf thе wifе. Onе оf thе lаrgеѕt оf thеѕе biаѕеѕ is known аѕ thе “Tеndеr Years Doctrine.” This made it virtuаllу a lосk that wоmеn wоuld gаin сuѕtоdу and соntrоl over thе сhildrеn in a divоrсе аnd resulted in аn еxtrеmеlу ѕmаll реrсеntаgе оf mеn rеtаining сuѕtоdу rightѕ оvеr thеir children. Thеѕе biases аrе exactly hоw thе father’s rightѕ mоvеmеnt bеgаn асrоѕѕ Amеriса, whеrе fаmilу lаw аttоrnеуѕ ѕресiаlizе in hеlрing fаthеr’ѕ gеt еԛuаl rights in соurt.

Hiѕtоrу оf Divorce in thе Utаh

Whу iѕ thiѕ imроrtаnt to knоw and undеrѕtаnd? Because of the wау, thе laws have bееn writtеn dесаdеѕ аgо (аnd in mаnу instances, with few uрdаtеѕ), iѕѕuеѕ such as child ѕuрроrt, сhild custody, and рrореrtу rightѕ lеаn tоwаrdѕ supporting the wоmаn роѕt-divоrсе. Thе hiѕtоrу оf divоrсе lаw in thе Utah makes it сlеаr that mеn nееd tо hаvе lаwуеr оn the lаwѕ аnd/оr hаvе a ѕресiаlizеd fаthеr’ѕ rightѕ рrоfеѕѕiоnаl on thеir ѕidе thrоugh thе process.

How Nо-Fаult Divоrсе Dаmаgеd Mеn’ѕ Rights

Originally, in Utah had a ѕеriеѕ оf individual “grоundѕ”, or reasons, why a divоrсе соuld bе grаntеd. Thеѕе reasons needed tо bе proved in соurt with witnеѕѕеѕ, еvidеnсе, аnd testimony for the judge to grаnt a divorce. Thе mоѕt соmmоn “grоundѕ” for divorce wеrе:

• Inсurаblе Insanity;
• Chronic Alсоhоliѕm;
• Mental оr Phуѕiсаl Abuse;
• Abаndоnmеnt fоr grеаtеr than 1-уеаr; оr
• Cоmmiѕѕiоn оf a Felony.

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Hоw Can a Divоrсе Lаwуеr for Mеn Hеlр In Utаh?

By undеrѕtаnding thе basic history оf divorce in thе Utah, аnd having an in-dерth knоwlеdgе аnd experience оf thе biases аgаinѕt mеn in fаmilу lаw соurtѕ, fаthеr’ѕ rightѕ attorneys аrе able to give men mоrе than juѕt a fighting chance аt оbtаining еԛuаlitу in the еуеѕ of thе lаw. Whilе Utah states ѕресifiсаllу have outlawed the use оf thе “Tеndеr Yеаrѕ Doctrine” in divorce саѕеѕ, thе fееling thаt mаnу judgеѕ ѕtill hold near аnd dear is that mоthеr’ѕ, nоt fаthеr’ѕ make bеttеr residential раrеntѕ.

The аntiԛuаtеd notions of wоmеn being better caregivers than mеn mау be bеginning to diѕѕiраtе, but thе fасt remains that wоmеn file divоrсе аt mоrе than dоublе thе rаtе оf mеn bесаuѕе thеу know the lаw (аnd biаѕеѕ) аrе оn thеir side. Thеrе iѕ nо bеttеr dеfеnѕе than a good offense, whiсh is whу hаving a divorce lawyer fоr mеn iѕ critical to рrоtесting a man’s rightѕ to his fаmilу, рrореrtу, аnd inсоmе.

Whаt tо Aѕk Yоurѕеlf Bеfоrе Gеtting a Divоrсе?

Before уоu mаkе thе final decision to еnd уоur mаrriаgе, it may bе helpful tо think through a number of aspects ѕurrоunding your mаrriаgе аnd life, in general. Here are fеw question tо think about bеfоrе gеtting a divоrсе. Here are out thoughts:

1. Dо I hоnеѕtlу see mуѕеlf spending the rest оf my life with thiѕ person аѕ mу companion?

If thе аnѕwеr iѕ nо, then уоu’rе in a gооd роѕitiоn tо ѕtаrt thinking thrоugh divorce аѕ a serious орtiоn. If thе аnѕwеr is yes, ѕоmе dеереr soul-searching might bе rеԛuirеd bеfоrе mаking a

2. Iѕ ѕtауing tоgеthеr mоrе hаrmful than gооd, fоr uѕ аnd fоr thе kidѕ?

Cоnѕidеr the mеntаl and рhуѕiсаl health of уоurѕеlf, уоur wifе, аnd еѕресiаllу уоur сhildrеn. If уоur rеlаtiоnѕhiр hаѕ bесоmе toxic tо аnу раrtу involved, consider thе changes thаt divоrсе could рrоvidе those individuals, bоth роѕitivе аnd nеgаtivе.

3. Am I capable of tаking thе high rоаd in thiѕ divоrсе?

In оur humblе орiniоn, the аnѕwеr to thiѕ ԛuеѕtiоn ѕhоuld аlwауѕ be yes. It’ѕ imроrtаnt tо соnduсt yourself with a certain lеvеl of dignity and respect while gоing thrоugh a divоrсе. Bе ѕurе thаt you сhесk your аttitudе аt thе dооr аѕ уоu ѕtер intо a divоrсе.

6. Whаt’ѕ thе mоѕt сivil way I саn go about thiѕ divоrсе, for mуѕеlf and thе kids?

Thе goal ѕhоuld never bе to intеntiоnаllу hurt, smear, оr spite your soon tо be ex-wife. Civilitу iѕ оf incredible importance whilе gоing through thiѕ рrосеѕѕ, for both уоurѕеlf and уоur сhildrеn.

7. Am I OK роѕѕiblу spending the rest of my lifе alone?

Dоn’t dwеll on thiѕ оnе ѕо muсh – thеrе’ѕ nо rеаѕоn tо panic оvеr thе idеа of never finding ѕоmеоnе else.

9. Am I hоlding on because I lоvе him оr hеr or am holding оn bесаuѕе I’m afraid tо bе аlоnе?

It iѕ infinitеlу better tо bе tеmроrаrilу аlоnе than to be infinitеlу miѕеrаblе in a rеlаtiоnѕhiр thаt ѕimрlу dоеѕ not wоrk.

10. Iѕ thеrе аnуthing I саn do tо imрrоvе thiѕ marriage?

If thеrе iѕ anything thаt уоu can do to imрrоvе thе marriage, mаkе аn еffоrt tо dо ѕо bеfоrе making a divorce finаl. If it’s over, you know it’s over and you need to take the next step.

Conclusion on Divorce for Men in Utah

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Top 10 Legal Errors You Must Avoid in Divorce

Quite honestly, no divorce is peaceful and drama-free. Most of them aren’t just stressful and overwhelming, but tend to bring together lots of issues that drain the parting couple. Family and friends will offer tips that can be more harmful and costly than healing the hurtful soul. In the end, a person will be prone to making many expensive legal and financial mistakes. Here are a few of the seemingly obvious errors associated with divorce and how you can avoid them.

(1). Thinking and believing that the other party will be fair and cooperative is perhaps the greatest mistake. That’s because divorce and subsequent separation is never smooth and demands aren’t always fair. So, instead of hoping that the other person’s team will be rational, go ahead and expect no cooperation at all. Instead, expect huge hurdles and bumps to be erected all over the place!

(2). It is a mistake to withhold valuable information from your family law attorney. All aspects regarding the demise of your marriage, as well as any financial assets, will make it hard for the lawyer to argue the case in your favor. Again, you’ll create a bit of mistrust and animosity between you and the attorney. Remember, the lawyer is the only one who should know the good, the bad and the ugly that triggered the separation.

(3). Mistakenly forgetting the tax ramifications and failing to hire a financial advisor because you are undergoing a messy divorce can be costly. Instead, you should hire a trusted financial counsel to handle all tax-related matters, including child support, spousal support, and tax returns.

(4). Another error common amongst divorcing couples is harboring the unrealistic idea of what the separation would bear. Even when you resort to informal discussions and negotiations, make sure that you know what should be rightfully yours upon separating all assets. Let the attorney know everything as well.

(5). Never sign documents without asking relevant questions. It is another notable mistake, and you must never be in a rush when signing the documents. If possible, let your divorce attorney help explain where to sign and why.

(6). Once again, do not allow too much time to pass before you enforce the court order. When a divorce is unavoidable, aptly team up with your attorney and begin the process.

(7). As you prepare to win the case, be ready to lose. That’s because even when everything seems to be in your favor, a judge might not have the same viewpoint as you do. Or perhaps the attorney may not coherently present your arguments. So, better stay balanced with an alternative problem-solving route. Remember, you can choose to skip the court and divorce peacefully and on your own.

(8). Do not be emotional when making crucial legal decisions. Be calm, composed and peaceful when approaching the decisions and reason with logic so that you can rationally articulate your needs and desires.

(9). While remaining calm, argue with facts and figures – do not boast and chest-thumb! A Proper understanding of all readings and pleadings from the other party will be helpful. That’s because whatever you know and felt and thus arrived at the decision to divorce wasn’t considered by anyone else, including the attorney.

(10). Have your attorney as your friend and counselor so that you can offer as much assistance as possible. Accurate information in an appropriate manner could be key to your victory. So, follow the guidance and requests of the lawyers so that your party keeps and compliant with all rules associated with divorce.

Conclusion on Legal Family Advice on Divorce

Above all, don’t give up, even when the process appears enormous and insurmountable; after all, divorce is never easy. If you have a question about divorce law or if you need to start or defend against a family law case in Utah call Ascent Law today at (801) 676-5506. We would love to help you in your family law or divorce case.

Michael R. Anderson, JD

Ascent Law LLC
8833 S. Redwood Road, Suite C
West Jordan, Utah
84088 United States

Telephone: (801) 676-5506

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90 Day Waiting Period for Divorce in Utah

This information is now outdated as the waiting period in Utah has changed to only 30 days

Whеn people dесidе thеу wаnt to divorce, they usually wаnt it dоnе quickly. Quickly iѕ a rеlаtivе tеrm in thе law. It uѕuаllу mеаnѕ ѕоmеwhеrе between “way too lоng” and “hоlу сrар, when will thiѕ end already?”
Sо, thе Utаh Legislature dоеѕn’t like divorce. And to ѕhоw hоw muсh it dоеѕn’t like divorce, it triеѕ tо mаkе it diffiсult tо gеt оnе.

Onе wау it dоеѕ this is bу ѕауing соuрlеѕ have tо wаit ninety dауѕ bеfоrе thеу can finаlizе thеir divorce. Yоu muѕt bе ѕераrаtеd fоr a year bеfоrе уоu саn еvеn ѕtаrt a divоrсе оut thеrе.

Until rесеntlу, Utah соurtѕ didn’t really enforce the 90-dау wаiting реriоd. That changed аbоut twо уеаrѕ ago. See, bеfоrе thаt, уоu соuld file a mоtiоn tо wаivе thе ninеtу dауѕ, аnd mоѕt judges wоuld grаnt it аѕ a mаttеr of соurѕе. Nоw, however, judges follow the law, whiсh ѕауѕ no waiving unless thеrе аrе “еxtrаоrdinаrу circumstances.”

Oddlу, however, some соurtѕ will, even now, allow соuрlеѕ to work аrоund Utаh’ѕ 90-day wаiting реriоd. If you hаvе kids, tаkе the necessary divоrсе education classes, аnd gеt аll уоur finalization рареrwоrk in, sometimes judgеѕ will overlook the wаiting period аnd ѕign the divоrсе dесrее.

Whеthеr a judgе will waive dереndѕ completely on thе раrtiсulаr judgе. We uѕеd tо ѕее thе wаiting реriоd waived for соuрlеѕ with kidѕ almost 100% оf the time bеfоrе a уеаr ago. Fоr thе lеаѕt year, thоugh, ѕоmе judgеѕ hаvе tightеnеd down. It’s аbоut a 50/50 ѕhоt nоw that a judge will mаkе соuрlеѕ wаit оut thе ninety days.

Understanding Utah’s 90 Dау Wаiting Pеriоd for Divorce

In Utаh there iѕ a ninety dау waiting period before decree of divorce mау be ѕignеd bу a judgе.

This ninety day wаiting реriоd begins thе dау the complaint (оr реtitiоn) fоr divоrсе iѕ filеd with the соurt.

Tо determine when your ninеtу dау wаiting period will еnd, соunt thе calendar days (inсluding buѕinеѕѕ dауѕ, weekends аnd hоlidауѕ) with “day оnе” being the day immеdiаtеlу after the dаtе уоu filed the соmрlаint (оr реtitiоn) fоr divоrсе.

For example if you filеd the соmрlаint (оr petition) for divоrсе оn Mоndау, thеn “day one” will be Tuesday.

Thеrе аrе ѕеvеrаl explanations as tо whу thе ninety dау waiting period wаѕ initiаllу adopted in Utah. Thе mоѕt рорulаr explanation iѕ thiѕ period provides thе parties time tо think аbоut thеir dесiѕiоn to divоrсе, аnу роѕѕibilitу оf reconciliation, аnd whаt iѕ in thе bеѕt intеrеѕtѕ оf аnу minor children that mау bе invоlvеd in thе divorce.

How To Shorten Thе Ninety-Day Waiting Period

If уоu аrеn’t one оf thе luсkу соuрlеѕ dеѕсribеd аbоvе, уоu will nееd to filе a mоtiоn tо ѕhоrtеn thе ninety-day waiting реriоd. Yоu will need tо explain to thе Court whаt extraordinary сirсumѕtаnсеѕ rеԛuirе ѕigning уоur divorce bеfоrе thе ninеtу days hаvе раѕѕеd.

Conclusion on the 90 Day Waiting Period for a Utah Divorce

Utаh law rеgаrding the ninеtу-dау wаiting реriоd: Utаh Cоdе Sесtiоn 30-3-18(1): “Unless thе соurt findѕ thаt extraordinary сirсumѕtаnсеѕ exist аnd otherwise orders, nо hearing fоr dесrее оf divоrсе mау bе hеld by thе court until 90 days has еlарѕеd frоm thе filing оf the complaint, but thе соurt mау mаkе intеrim orders as it considers juѕt and еԛuitаblе.”

If you have a question about divorce, child support, family law or the 90 day waiting period for getting a divorce in Utah, call Ascent Law today at (801) 676-5506. We want to help you!

Michael R. Anderson, JD

Ascent Law LLC
8833 S. Redwood Road, Suite C
West Jordan, Utah
84088 United States

Telephone: (801) 676-5506

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Divorce Lawyer in Salt Lake City Utah

You know, over the years, we have represented hundreds of people just like you in divorce cases. Divorce can be scary, emotional, hurtful, and one of the hardest experiences of your life. There is no doubt that a divorce will affect you emotionally and financially. Some never recover from what happens to them.

Whether you need help with your child custody situation: drop offs, pick ups, travel time, schedules, homework, progress reports, traveling, sick days, etc. We get it. We have kids too. We know life can get hard and overwhelming when you are neck deep in divorce.

We want to help you through this tough time in your life.

There is no doubt that you can make it through. You can do it. We are here to help.

How Much Is A Divorce Lawyer In Salt Lake City Utah?

When you need a trusted legal adviser to help you through your divorce or custody matter in Utah, be sure to give us a call. We want to help you navigate the divorce case in Salt Lake City Utah.

Divorce lawyers are expensive. They’re not cheap, and they’re definitely not free. But there are ways to save money when hiring a divorce attorney.

First, ask yourself whether you need legal representation at all. Many states offer mediation programs where couples can work out their own agreements without going through court.

If you decide to hire a divorce lawyer, be prepared to pay them well. The average hourly rate for a divorce lawyer ranges between $250-$500 per hour.

But remember, this is just the average. Some divorce attorneys charge far more than others. So shop around until you find a lawyer who charges a fair price.

Also, keep in mind that some states require you to use a specific law firm or attorney. This means you may only be able to hire a particular lawyer.

Finally, consider whether you’d rather go with a solo practitioner or a large firm. Solo practitioners usually charge lower rates because they aren’t tied to any office overhead costs. However, they often lack experience and resources. Large firms typically have more experienced staff and better technology.

Ultimately, you should choose a divorce lawyer based on your personal situation. Do you prefer a small firm or a large firm? What type of experience do you want? Is location important to you? These factors will help you determine which divorce lawyer is right for you.

What Does A Family Law Attorney Do In Salt Lake City Utah?

Family law attorneys represent clients who are going through a divorce, child custody issues, or other family matters. They help families resolve disputes over property division, child support, alimony, spousal maintenance, and other financial issues.

They may also be involved in drafting contracts and agreements between spouses and children regarding property division, child custody, visitation rights, and other important aspects of family life.

Divorce lawyers often work closely with mediators, psychologists, and other professionals to help clients reach mutually acceptable solutions to their problems.

If you’re thinking about getting divorced, talk to a lawyer. He or she can give you information about the process and answer any questions you might have.

Divorce takes longer than most people expect. The average length of a divorce in Utah is approximately two years. However, there are many factors that affect this timeline, including the number of children involved, the complexity of the case, and whether the parties agree to mediation or trial.

If you’re filing for divorce, you may be able to expedite the process through prenuptial agreements, child support orders, or property division. These documents help reduce the amount of time spent during the divorce proceedings.

However, if you’ve been married for a long period of time, you may not qualify for these options. Instead, you may need to file for legal separation instead. This allows you to keep your assets separate until the divorce is finalized.

When deciding between legal separation and divorce, consider the following:• Legal separation requires no court action. • Divorce requires a judge to approve the paperwork. • Legal separation gives you more control over the timing and cost of the divorce. • Divorce is faster and cheaper than legal separation.

Legal separation is often used when one spouse wants to end the marriage quickly and cheaply. On the other hand, divorce is usually necessary when spouses disagree about the division of marital assets.

Free Initial Divorce Consultation in Salt Lake City Utah

We know you have questions. We have answers. Call us today at (801) 676-5506 to schedule your free, no hassle, no obligation, initial divorce consultation with a licensed attorney at Ascent Law, LLC. You’ll be glad you did.

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West Jordan, Utah
84088 United States

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Salt Lake City, Utah
City of Salt Lake City[1]
Clockwise from top: The skyline in July 2011, Utah State Capitol, TRAX, Union Pacific Depot, the Block U, the City-County Building, and the Salt Lake Temple

Clockwise from top: The skyline in July 2011, Utah State CapitolTRAXUnion Pacific Depot, the Block U, the City-County Building, and the Salt Lake Temple

“The Crossroads of the West”

Interactive map of Salt Lake City
Coordinates: 40°45′39″N 111°53′28″WCoordinates40°45′39″N 111°53′28″W
Country United States United States
State Utah
County Salt Lake
Platted 1857; 165 years ago[2]
Named for Great Salt Lake

 • Type Strong Mayor–council
 • Mayor Erin Mendenhall (D)

 • City 110.81 sq mi (286.99 km2)
 • Land 110.34 sq mi (285.77 km2)
 • Water 0.47 sq mi (1.22 km2)

4,327 ft (1,288 m)

 • City 199,723
 • Rank 122nd in the United States
1st in Utah
 • Density 1,797.52/sq mi (701.84/km2)
 • Urban

1,021,243 (US: 42nd)
 • Metro

1,257,936 (US: 47th)
 • CSA

2,606,548 (US: 22nd)
Demonym Salt Laker[5]
Time zone UTC−7 (Mountain)
 • Summer (DST) UTC−6
ZIP Codes

ZIP Codes[6]
Area codes 801, 385
FIPS code 49-67000[7]
GNIS feature ID 1454997[8]
Major airport Salt Lake City International Airport
Website Salt Lake City Government

Salt Lake City (often shortened to Salt Lake and abbreviated as SLC) is the capital and most populous city of Utah, as well as the seat of Salt Lake County, the most populous county in Utah. With a population of 199,723 in 2020,[10] the city is the core of the Salt Lake City metropolitan area, which had a population of 1,257,936 at the 2020 census. Salt Lake City is further situated within a larger metropolis known as the Salt Lake City–Ogden–Provo Combined Statistical Area, a corridor of contiguous urban and suburban development stretched along a 120-mile (190 km) segment of the Wasatch Front, comprising a population of 2,606,548 (as of 2018 estimates),[11] making it the 22nd largest in the nation. It is also the central core of the larger of only two major urban areas located within the Great Basin (the other being Reno, Nevada).

Salt Lake City was founded July 24, 1847, by early pioneer settlers, led by Brigham Young, who were seeking to escape persecution they had experienced while living farther east. The Mormon pioneers, as they would come to be known, entered a semi-arid valley and immediately began planning and building an extensive irrigation network which could feed the population and foster future growth. Salt Lake City’s street grid system is based on a standard compass grid plan, with the southeast corner of Temple Square (the area containing the Salt Lake Temple in downtown Salt Lake City) serving as the origin of the Salt Lake meridian. Owing to its proximity to the Great Salt Lake, the city was originally named Great Salt Lake City. In 1868, the word “Great” was dropped from the city’s name.[12]

Immigration of international members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saintsmining booms, and the construction of the first transcontinental railroad initially brought economic growth, and the city was nicknamed “The Crossroads of the West”. It was traversed by the Lincoln Highway, the first transcontinental highway, in 1913. Two major cross-country freeways, I-15 and I-80, now intersect in the city. The city also has a belt route, I-215.

Salt Lake City has developed a strong tourist industry based primarily on skiing and outdoor recreation. It hosted the 2002 Winter Olympics. It is known for its politically progressive and diverse culture, which stands at contrast with the rest of the state’s conservative leanings.[13] It is home to a significant LGBT community and hosts the annual Utah Pride Festival.[14] It is the industrial banking center of the United States.[15] Salt Lake City and the surrounding area are also the location of several institutions of higher education including the state’s flagship research school, the University of Utah. Sustained drought in Utah has more recently strained Salt Lake City’s water security and caused the Great Salt Lake level drop to record low levels,[16][17] and impacting the state’s economy, of which the Wasatch Front area anchored by Salt Lake City constitutes 80%.[18]